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Facts of Life

Faze4u's thoughts on some facts of life:
Money, Fertility, Insomnia, Libido, Alcohol, Children of Society, Identity Theft, Debts.


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  • Some silly men think its easy being a housewife and raising a baby on their own (fact)
  • Men are physically stronger than women (fact) but not all men are emotionally weaker than women.
  • Women like diamonds (fact).
  • Romantic lovers are more likely to say, “I love you” than some married couples (fact).
  • Women like shopping, so do some men (fact).
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  • Men prefer watching sports to home decorating and paying attention to their partners.  Some English men, black, white, whatever the race (fact).
  • Men who plan their Valentines Day activities are considered romantic.
  • Working mum’s are too tired for sex – some not all, depends on how much house work she does and cooking (fact).
  • Women do all the house work – Most women do (fact).  It’s sad, to find that a growing number of men do absolutely nothing, or their fair share of house duties.  It’s hard work bringing up a baby and providing food on the table and doing the house work as well “is a big problem”.
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  • Men need to do their fair share in a relationship where you have a new born baby; it’s nothing to feel embarrassed about.  And you must not demand sex until at least 4 months later.
  • Women enjoy being pampered, some not all (fact).  Some like it mean as I have once been told and I laughed, which I can now say was wrong of me.
  • Fathers are useful in bringing up children.  Some fathers do care about their kids and want the best for their kids (fact).
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  • Working long hours makes you tired – fact.  Also leads to stress and depression.  In a relationship, can be damaging.
  • Most of us will like to work less hours for more money, spend more time with the family and travel (fact).
  • In England we all work long hours for less money.  Long hours contribute to stress health problems, problems in relationship (fact).  If you are working long hours not getting enough sleep.  You are aging faster than people who work less hours, exercising, taking part in activities, happy people. (Cut long hours).  You might say “easier said than done”.
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  • The kind of society we live in.  We seem to be working more hours for less money, paying more in taxes, utility bills, house rent, and mortgages, more families are breaking up.  Crime is on the rise.  Kids are getting more aggressive from the poverty side of society in run down ghettoes.
  • In my country the United Kingdom, we are seeing more single parent families with mothers struggling to cope with bringing up the kids and doing house work and working to make ends meet (fact).
  • The under 35 years are not willing to commit to a long relationship.  Some want to stay single and enjoy life more with no strings attached.  The one good thing we have in my country, the UK, is security. But for how long?
  • I believe the government has got to look closely at its citizens as the poverty in the UK is on the rise.  Many people are not happy anymore.  People look more tense than 20 years ago.
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  • The kids lack discipline in society today.
  • Education at home is going out the window.  Because a lot of parents are worrying about money etc..., divorce, what ever the worries are about.  The kids suffer.  The problems get the parents down, stressed and depressed.  The kids or kid feel rejected and it leads to them mixing with the bad eggs at school, and in their neighbourhoods.  Even with the contributing long working hours parents are too tired to listen to the kids or children.  Please, not all parents fall into this category.  The one’s I have met and spoken to find it hard going.
  • We need to change in society today.  To take the kids out these days to have fun, e.g. activity world, cinema etc..., is very expensive and to find the time these days is difficult, long hours at work, too tired to do anything.
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  • If nothing is done to change this now, we are going to regret it in future when the damage will be well rooted into society (fact).
  • I was shocked when I heard two elderly women, “they could be anybody's grandmother”, caught on CCTV believed to have stolen a girls handbag.  What is happening to our society? Pension problems, what is the government going to do about this?
  • Women who think by getting pregnant they will keep the men of there dreams.  Wrong, very wrong.  Please think before you bring a baby into this world of ours.
  • Baby and Parents
  • Men who think it is easy for a women to work and raise a baby or infants and do house work and prepare the food all on their own, is easy, must think again.  I think these so called men should be ashamed of themselves. I say these men should change their ways of thinking because it takes two to tango. I do my fair share of baby sitting, house work and cooking, I am not saying I am perfect but I do expect men to help their partners.
    You should both share the work load at home, whether it’s nappy (diaper) changing cooking or house work.  Running the kids to school and reading to the kids.
    Some men just don’t care at all.  Why? I believe women or some women allow men to get away with it.

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