Lap Dancers
I once met a girl who used to be a lap dancer, she told me the full story about some of the women who do the job, including herself, and how they get exploited by some of the clubs. She told me “the name lap dancer should be changed to porn dancers”. She made a lot of money and a lot of girls slept with the male owner of the club and his friends, where she worked without telling me the name of the Place.
The games they played up until 0500a.m. During hired out V.I.P nights, week days, you can have up to 10 or 12 girls and women all stripping naked and having sex with these men, some are nice some are spiteful in what they say come on you……bitch ….. it all up the cream, etc, etc. That night was the last night she was a lap dancer. She had made enough money to own her own flat two bedrooms with her daughter 6 years old.
She looked a stunner to me and I said, I can’t understand trying to lap dance for money, but I never knew they also have rooms in the clubs. It’s a different world in the club she said to me. She told me after 11.00p.m you were not allowed to buy any alcohol ,this happened before the license laws changed and after 2.ooa.m, the members of the public leave and some stay behind, the lights get switched off on the outside and the real party starts at 3.00a.m VIPs’ only. Sometimes you can get as much as 15 girls in the club some new starters and all sought of things start to happen.
She asked me if I have ever gone to one and I said no. Call me stereo typing but a lot of people have always said lap dancers are prostitutes which I have always believed, without any proof.
There’s good and bad in everything and the majority of lap dancer’s sleep for cash, have sex for cash and have married rich men from being lap dancers. Some lap dancers are good at telling lies and will never own up to the truth because we are warned when we join not to mention sex outside to anyone. Please if there are any
Lap dancers reading this; please E-mail me your stories please. You don’t have to give your name or real name.
She made her money but was never happy. Ended up pregnant not knowing who the father was after sleeping with three different strangers really hit her hard when she found out she was pregnant only to lie to the Arab guy she was seeing that the baby was he’s. After visiting his doctor one day and was told to under go some tests, which she did, but couple of weeks later she was told he was not the father. This is what drinking does to you, you get drunk really quickly then you have sex with different people. All strangers you don’t know, with and without condoms. She will live with this for the rest of her life. It was her decision and she has now turned a corner in her life, she is now running her own business. Not a lap dancing club, but something completely different.
Women or girls who want to be lap dancers and rake in the money be careful and watch out for loop holes, in this kind of business make sure you won’t be asked to take part in V.I.P sessions and if you do, use a condom. Remember it’s tough to bring up a baby on your own. You will not be entitled to some benefits like married couples do. Wise up think before you do things or make a commitment to a stranger it could turn out to be very costly for you in future, if care is not taken. Remember you can catch crabs and herpes even with condoms on. A man or woman can look decent in appearance and can still have HIV, so you are taking unnecessary risks having sex with strangers in dark rooms, and don’t be a statistic.
