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Sex changes

Sex changes after the birthSex changes after the birth of a baby for some women (fact).

My wife had a 3rd degree tear which affected her pelvic floor and virginal wall.  She was really drained after she gave birth to our second daughter.
She was told by a top consultant that she had to under go an operation to be sterilized.  Because the damage done was so severe that if she fell pregnant again it could be life threatening especially at birth as this was her second tear.
After 3 months we tried sex together it wasn’t enjoyable for both of us as her virginal wall muscles were so weak I hardly felt any contact.  My wife was told to exercise her muscles after therapy was over.

I have noticed a great number of single women with one baby or child and they might have experienced a tear may be not as severe as my wife’s one but enough to affect your virginal wall and muscles.  Some men are so wicked that they don’t think before they do things, but demand sex after two weeks or so.  And when they don’t enjoy the sex, it becomes off putting and evasive.  Most men start to cheat instead of communicating with their partners.
This leads to divorce and in couples separation or split.  I am not a doctor but I do believe that women should not be shy to find out from their doctor or nurse whether they have a problem with their virginal wall muscles.

If you notice your man being funny tell him what you think.  It might be that you have just given birth to a baby.  So he should not be demanding sex for about at least a couple of months, if you have experienced a tear, then he should know you need therapy etc…

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