Cheating
If you are currently cheating and you want to stop, it’s best to try and tell your partner where you are both going wrong in your relationship, try honesty and talk to your partner. Because cheating is a disease that keeps repeating itself from one relationship to another. It ends in pain and is emotionally draining. If your relationship is strong enough I suggest you come clean, being more up front with your partner. Sometimes people forget that the player also gets played no-one wins it all ends in bitterness.
Cause of cheating
It always begins in a relationship. You must have trust and understanding and a woman’s desire for orgasms and to be loved. Self control a key to successful relationship.
- You don’t find your partner attractive anymore.
- Doesn’t do his fair share of the housework.
- Always going out with his mates or her mates too often.
- No communication, you don’t talk about things anymore.
- Sex isn’t good anymore, boring or one sided.
- He or she smells, not bathing anymore (not daily)
- Long hours at work, no time for anything else, tired.
- Financial problems.
- Lyng, making things worse.
- Nagging.
- Temptations at work.
Affairs – He has cheated – Or is cheating
He or she has had an affair with someone else. After the shock of finding out, it’s like loosing your feet from the ground falling down heavily. You have to make a decision, and the most important one is whether to stay together. Does the relationship have a future? Do you even want a future with him or her? It is often impossible to decide while, you keep on changing your mind every time you come to a decision.
Gather information
Don’t make a hasty decision while in pain. Take time and find out what you want, not only looking at how you feel about the affair, but the state of the relationship before the affair. You may ask yourself whether you were happy enough before he or she had an affair.
Find out what he or she wants. Does he or she want the relationship to work or has he or she given up? You have to calmly talk this through to find out the truth.
Please, please do not involve relatives and be wary of friends and their views. They are all not in your relationship, it’s you and your partner, spouse what ever or who ever the person. You should know a lot about your partner. Parents and friends say what you will probably want to hear about your partner and it could be that there was a problem in your relationship not noticed by you or your partner. If your love is strong, then you both still need to talk. Has it temptation from work? Etc... Find out why.
Reason’s to go or stay
Once you have both made up your minds or have come to a agreement, you both know where you stand, or if either of you disagree please end the relationship as you will in future get hurt. But if you decide to try again, don’t mention the affair ever again. Start a new chapter in your relationship if you both love and truely care for one another.
Revenge is sweet so I have heard
I believe if you do anything bad to someone it comes back around, so please lovers and haters, don’t do anything silly as it does not fix the situation but makes it worse. You could even get hurt from it. Revenge is never sweet but the opposite it’s called depression and that is a sickness which drains and for a women you put on weight. You drown in your sorrows, shutting the door on everyone. It’s never easy with a painful break up, but you can recover from it with your strength and determination to recover.
Secretly being followed by someone
Stalkers: - I was once in a relationship with an older woman (blondy) she turned my life upside down. In the end I got an injunction on the woman, stopping her from coming within 100 yards of me or my property. It’a a bad experience, I won’t wish the experience on anyone. Mostly caused by insecurity. When a partner thinks you’re cheating and cannot take no for an answer. This is very serious. I recommend the police for this kind of situation.
