Divorce
It’s not a good thing, but can’t be helped at times. You sometimes, can save a divorce if you found out the cause of the problem in your relationship.
If your partner has cheated on more than one occasion, then I must say you are not compatible and must separate or divorce, as I can tell you he no longer fancies you or finds you attractive. Men are bad at telling lies. It’s always obvious and if you can’t spot the lies, it’s best to have a private investigator track him down for you.
Divorced women sometimes find it difficult to forgive a partner who cheated and I believe it depends on the situation that led him to stray or cheat. If you have children in your marriage it’s never easy for the children, “they suffer from marriage break ups” regardless of what the father or mother thinks. The children always suffer. But the mother needs to be strong and put the child first before her own happiness, if you are not there for your child, don’t expect, him or her to be there for you, when he or she gets older.
The mother and father need to keep up educating there children even though they are no longer living together. I came from a broken family and my mother kept a baby book which I read and was shocked with the way my father treated her. My mother raised us four kids on her own, which was not easy, but she was strong enough to cope with the pain and work at the same time to feed us all.
Remember life goes on, may not be easy but happiness does return. A broken heart can mend if you allow it to. Always remember no two breaks ups or divorce are the same. When I was doing my research I found out the most common question people asked was how to heal a broken heart after a break up or divorce, some similarities popped up e.g. time to heal is important, going out helps, meeting people, socialising.
Some women seem to think that when things are going wrong in their relationship, having a baby is the answer. It is the wrong decision and a big mistake; you end up loosing the guy. You be come depress and it is down hill from there on. Some women recover to find happiness later in life and some just waste away.
