The loser in the marriage
Men always intend to lose more in a relationship. Especially when men are actually closer than ever before to their kids. These days some men are not just a dab-hand with the diapers (nappy) they are the main carer. Some are the main source of income.
Some fathers invest more time in their kids (children). I was once told by a guy from were I use to work, that he came home early from work due to a migraine and found a stranger in bed with his wife. A father of three children, he said to me, I just froze and could not do anything for a few minutes. He recalls going out the house and reporting to a police station and later filed for a divorce only to lose custody of his children. And can only see them when it is convenient for his ex-wife at the weekends.
He went through stress and depression. Some vulnerable men in this position have been known to commit suicide or murder. Women also go through this infidelity and the fact of this is that the children suffer. We know that men and women suffer trauma in a divorce, but I believe if a partner catches their lover in bed having sex with a stranger in his or her bed it is sometimes difficult to pin point what the partner is thinking in his or her head at the time.
He and she have a lot to lose in a divorce, the house, the children, etc... The children always end up heart broken. With men, some revenge, others out of misery and desperation. In society today as we know it is “a shambles”.
The growing amount of men and women who cheat, “is affecting and contributing to marriage and relationship break ups in society world wide”, it is devastating to say the least.
If only men and women in marriage or relationship can find away to discuss what the problem is in their relationship or marriage, then can they try to solve the problem or find a solution. I have seen so many unhappy women in the past and I know it’s not easy for women to pick up the pieces.
Some men leech on their partners because they are weak and have no self esteem. I am talking about violent men in relationships and marriages. They beat their partners up and hardly do a damn thing in the house.
