Love at first sight
Some people say they have fallen in love at first sight. I can only say that, you must live with your lover for at least six months, before you start thinking of him moving into your home or buying a home together.
I am only trying to give you ideas so you don’t make a costly mistake. Find out if you are still compatible. With players and cheaters out in society today, it is difficult to tell who’s a fake and who isn’t.
I am not selling you any ideas or books, please take care before you commit to a long relationship and if in doubt call a private eye.
When you live together, you might find or notice differences. You will need to share the house work duties, cooking, bills and other private things up front.
Could your lover be a domino? You don’t know in society today. Some women are too eager to find Mr. Right, especially lonely divorced women who already have a house. Some are even known to become lesbians or bisexuals. My tip is to get your lover checked out, is he a player or for real. He will never know if you have him checked out, it’s the safest way. If you have kids put them first before your own happiness. So many children are neglected in society today, it’s a big shame.
If you have been hurt once before and don’t want to be hurt again or dismal, get yourself a Private Investigator.
Please remember in a relationship you are committed to one another. Remember the pit falls in a relationship.
- Nagging
- Lies
- Dishevelled
- No Communication
- Trauma
- Long Hours away from home
- Dishonesty
- Disdain
- Fallacy
- Frigid
I hope you have a long lasting relationship or marriage and always remember the most important thing in a relationship and marriage is communication (fact).




