Marriage
It’s a commitment between two people who are deeply in love, who hold onto life together to share and to endure and over come anything in the world.
I believe life is for the living and love is for the giving.
Before you marry (wed) your partner, you would have ironed out your differences, e.g. housework, financial situations and what you want from your marriage (relationship).
Some people say marriage is a contract, I prefer not to use that word, contract. It’s an understanding between two happy people, committed to one another.
As you build up the years in your marriage, you must remember not to stick to the same routines. You must change your routines and don’t think because you are not going out you wouldn’t need to bath yourself or do your hair, trust me you need to keep looking your best because in the society we live in, the media and tabloid’s have contributed in a way to infidelity in relationship couples and in marriages.
Today society seems to be more tolerant of photos of nude girls and women in papers and television. And a government that has also turned a blind eye to the rise of nude photo’s of women in papers, car magazines and TV’s, promoting infidelity. There is even more temptation in today’s society than 25 years ago for men to stray, even at work.
In marriage some people I have spoken to prefer the words, “Making love”. In a marriage some people plan love making (sex). Here’s one example for you; Men and women love their cars, so you wax the car twice a month or more. So the body work maintains its shine. If you don’t, “the car will loose its shine and the bodywork will fade away”.
Remember you need erotic intelligence in your marriage and try to plan your dates this might be of help to you both. So in marriage you need to keep up waxing the important things you both love together.
The idea of making love (sex) must be spontaneous keeps us one step removed from having to will sex, to own our desire, and to express it with intent. I find it ironic that in society today we wilfully conjuring up sex, like we are embarrassed and have done something wrong or in appropriate.
I have always wondered why having a child or children in wed lock from the love that bonded two people together threatens the very romance that brought that child or children into being. Sex, which set the entire family in motion, is often abandoned once children enter the picture. My opinion is “women in this position some might have had a problem with their Virginal wall muscles” without knowing that this could change the enjoyment of sex with their partners. I can’t understand why some men cannot say to their partners or wives that they don’t feel contact from the wall muscles. And men I have spoken to have said sex was no longer enjoyable. Women might not realise this but can check with the medical centre’s Nurse.
Like I said earlier marriage is not the end of romance and is not a contract, it’s about two people in love. Marriage is the beginning of life, and you are forever facing the challenges in a demanding society and trying to over come obstacles along the way. In marriage you know you have got years in which to deepen your love connection. You may want children and you might already have children, remember you must make time for you and your partner away from the children to spend quality time together. If you notice a slide in your sex life be honest and ask your partner what the problem is don’t think the problem will go away by itself.
Did you know having vigorous sex 15-minute session three times a week for a year will burn up 30,000 calories- or 8Ib of body fat, lowering your risk of death from heart disease. And did you know smell is very important in sex, so put some scented candles in your bedroom. The aroma can help sexual arousal.
Did you know 1 in 3 marriages break up in America? And in the United Kingdom we are slowly catching up.
Did you know that 50% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm at some time of their lives. Some 23% say they have experienced their first orgasm by the age of 15 and 90% at the time they are 35 years old.
