Women who put up with violent relationships
These kinds of women are weak and vulnerable and they lack self esteem, self respect and expect to be treated like trash all the time. It really is sad to see a woman with black eyes looking drained and depressed.
I know of a lady who once was in this situation. She’s got four kids and was always beaten up by her fella. She later threw him out and got a restraining order on him, but only to later on move him back into the house. “What a mistake that was”. As her fella made her sell her car, she also took out loans and this time she was beaten up good and proper. She has now moved from her house leaving her fella alone in the house, who was later thrown out by the housing association. With her already re-housed.
For women in this kind of relationship, you must pick yourself up. “You might say it’s easy for me to say that”. You really must face the music and dance. What I mean is, “you must find the dignity in yourself to move on. Some say they have too much to lose, like the material things, nice car. You can’t replace yourself, but you can with material things. Why should a leech man use you and later depress you when it’s time for him to move on, men who do this usually have other women on the sidelines waiting to move them in.
It’s a big pity the percentage of men who beat their partners is growing and something needs to be done. And the women, who take back their partners after a restraining order has been issued, should be fined, for wasting police and court’s time.
Women should be treated with respect and in a relationship where the man beats the woman, you can tell the woman does all the housework, cooks the food and takes care of the children.
I feel the anger and pain when I see a woman with a black eye, which I do sometimes at my daughter’s school. It really is a worrying trend to know that men beat up their so called loved ones everyday, a woman is assaulted in a relationship, with the kids present.
This is why “I say women who have kids, should think about the kids. You don’t want kids seeing you being smacked by your partner. Please call the police immediately. Women out there remember this?, “you deserve better, there are still decent men out in the society as we know it, so please don’t put up with a violent relationship. “For your own sakes, in the long run could do serious damage to you and the kids. If you have kids.
It is not easy for a woman to bring up a baby, at the same time do the house work and then cook dinner, collect the kids from school as well. I should know because I have always done my fair share of house work, maintenance, baby caring and more. It is difficult and time consuming, even draining.
If you are a women in a violent marriage or relationship, were your partner hits you physically, please report it to the police. And get out of the house. If a man hits a woman, he will always do it again and again. And men like this, are never faithful. They are cheats and untrustworthy men, weak and lazy men and society is full of them (fact).
Men in violent relationship, marriages are fallacies. They will forever keep saying what you want to hear from them. So you find it difficult to move on or divorce him.
This is a known fact that some women hide behind a screen, saying I am scared he is going to beat me up if I leave him. Rubbish you are so weak that you will believe anything your violent partner says. You become so afraid you put up with the situation till it gets worse and nearly too late.
