Women
House wives
My tip for women who are house wives is, don’t fall into daily routines because you are house wives.
Always remember to keep looking your best, attractive through out your marriage it’s so easy to fall into a routine and stay rooted to the same routine day in day out week in week out.
This becomes boring, off putting and evasive for your partner who may not tell you because he has a lover on the side. Some men begin to have affairs and are pro’s at hiding their affair. I heard cases of men cheating for as long as five years before there partners found out.
Nagging is another problem, some women go on and on, “like you are both going out for the night and you can’ find what to wear, so you nag, nag, nag, till you both start to argue.”
Try to feel your mind with ideas by trying different things from time to time and day to day. You don’t want to be bored, so go for walks may be to the local shop or do something. Read my article on tips for women. Remember happy people are healthier people.
Career Women
I believe that women should have a career because with a growing number of separations in couples and divorce in marriages most women are left with the burden of bringing up a child or children.
For example; my father was having an affair with his secretary when my mother found out, he must have been scared changing the locks on the house and selling the house. My father who I have never forgiven for this infidelity had been having affairs while he was still married to my mother.
I can tell you that if my mother had not been strong to carry on with her career, I don’t think that this website would have been created in the first place.
My mother went from being a Tutor over the years rising to a CNO, Chief Nursing Officer, in the School of nursing in Lagos Nigeria. She has since retired never re- marrying.
If your partner or husband tells you, you don’t need a job tell him or her that you will think about it. Then it’s entirely up to you to access your relationship or marriage and come to a decision without being influenced by a third party. Some women are going to keep on making mistakes costly ones but some learn and some learn the hard way or when they have lost everything. Nobody has the right to tell you what to do .follow your heart always. If you really think it’s difficult to come to a decision seek advice from experience known advisors.
If you are a lonely career woman single and your job entails travelling, don’t mention this on your date because you might change your date’s mind, which in turn will use you while he looks for another person to replace you. I am not saying don’t tell him you run your run your own business, you don’t want him to be jealous that you earn more then him some men hate or dislike working and rich women so watch out for signs when you both talk about your jobs.
So in a nut shell don’t show off. And at the same time you don’t want to be taken advantage of.
Lonely Women
It’s a fact that lonely vulnerable women from the ages of thirty-five years start to panic because they are getting older and are still single or divorced.
I find it amazing that some women actually go out three to four times a month looking for Mr Right. Some techniques women, girls and ladies use doesn’t mean it will work for others. When you go hunting for a man you end up picking up the wrong men in night clubs, wine bars etc. Some women drop their guard’s far too easy form being tipsy. Some have been known to strip while out on a company dinner outing with dance floors. And the things women say in toilets in night clubs and wine bars, I find very interesting from wanting or fancying a guy with a female partner by the dance floor, to chasing him as soon as he goes to buy a drink for his partner.
One lady said go to the bar and ask him what aftershave his got on up close with your hand on his bum saying you turn me on with that smell. If you want to get him in bed, I bet you he will find away to give you his number.
My Tip for Women looking for the right man
To meet the perfect guy or man of your dreams, I can tell you “he will be the least person you expect.”
Don’t worry about the way your body looks, I mean body size. Men don’t like skinny women as they are a big put off, especially with clothes off.
Don’t over do it with plenty of perfume and make up.
Don’t dress to pull a man by showing all your body flesh, you will attract the wrong men and make sure you have panties on. You can easily scare away a decent man from over dressing.
Don’t drop your guard because you think you have found the perfect guy or man. And try not to be a conversation freak.
Don’t hang around the bars in night clubs or wine bars with your old mates because sometimes they can influence situations in attracting the wrong crowd.
These days it’s difficult to meet the right guy or man in a night club or wine bar, because a growing number of men and women go to these places to pick up easy men and women for sex.
You can meet the man you want by walking to the local shop, in a private party, on the train or may be on the beach. I met my wife seventeen years ago when I tried to sell her a car.
I can tell you that Mr Right will turn up when you least expect him, it’s not a myth but a fact. Some people have met Mr Right on their own front door, so please don’t go looking build up your confidence and just have fun because happy people are healthy people.
Mr Right will not look anything like you are expecting because there is no perfect man on this earth the sooner you understand this, the easier and happy you will be. He could even be of a different race to yours, you just can’t tell the future.
Trust me, you need an open mind, don’t expect things to happen for you. You will know when the right guy or man arrives they will not be in a hurry to get into your knickers instead it could even take weeks before you make love and I can tell you that it will be different to the last guy or man or partner you had before.
Be groomed, less make up, but not over dressed.
Use the right perfume not too strong.
Try a different approach to dressing up; try other clothes you think are not suitable for you.
Change your hair style, once or twice every two months.
Try to be yourself then pretend to be someone else.
Avoid your friends they might cramp your style. If you prefer going hunting for a guy or man in night clubs or wine bars. You need to be able to flirt and enjoy yourself without your friends present. Try not to be the talk of the club some women act like hoes.
When you go out looking for your man like some women do be enthusiastic, don’t expect all grown up men to be confident.
Always remember that some men are shy out their looking for Mrs Right as well.
Remember that in society today we have Players, Knockers , cheaters what ever they are known as are out their for sex and pleasures and then they move on. So you can’t be too careful these days.
If your date keeps demanding sex, ask him to leave or judge the mood and say you are not ready yet. You can always call a Domestic Private Investigators, if in doubt. There are cheaper reasonable ones out there in our society.
There has always been a known myth about British and American ladies and women, who love to have sex on their first dates with strangers they don’t even know. This is risky in today’s society. If you feel old, it’s possible you are not but if you are sixty years of age and you feel old that’s a different matter because some people at sixty years of age still look ten or more years younger without plastic surgery.
Women with False Images
It is a known fact that there are some women with bad spending habits who like to look like footballer’s wives, nick named wags by tabloids. Keeping up a false image is so easy but when it’s time to pay back the money you spent from Credit-cards, it becomes a problem for you to keep up with the monthly payments.
Some women have as much as five Credit-cards. I have no sympathy for women like these because they contribute to problems in society with inflation increasing causing increases in interest rates. I believe we need education in financial matters, as we are not them in high schools.
Some women deliberately and knowingly chase married men making them commit to them through falling pregnant trapping there men.
Some marry for money, they don’t mind having kids or children as long as they have the money. I can say for these women, they are taking unnecessary risks which can lead to murder. And society is wising up to this kind of atrocious decent.
